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Dearly Bigoted: Anglican Church requires pre-marital HIV test

posted Friday, 17 August 2007

Presiding officer speaks:

Dearly Bigoted, we are gathered together here in the sign of prejudice – and in the face of this mob – to disjoin asunder this man and this woman from HIV matrimony, which is commended to be dishonourable among all Anglican clergy; and therefore – is not by any – to be entered into advisedly though lightly – but irreverently, indiscreetly, unadvisedly and without solemnity.

Into this HIV estate these two persons present now come to be set asunder. If any person can show just cause why they may be joined together – let them speak now or forever hold their peace.

Bigot speaks with loud voice:

“They have HIV, it is an abomination”, quoting Chapter and verse and approaching the pulpit with the ferocity of a lioness, the whole mob joins in to lynch the hapless couple; cuts, blood and guts everywhere – we all now have HIV.

This is the bizarre development that has come out of the Anglican Church in Nigeria, couples would have to take an HIV test before their marriage is blessed in the church.

However, if the couple does know their status and still decide to continue with marriage “the church will not object but offer them care and support”. Care and support possibly by discreetly informing others to steer clear of the couple and their eventual offspring and technical ostracise them with the Body of Christ till they leave their parish.

This quest to stigmatise HIV/AIDS is becoming the vogue in Nigeria amongst religious organisations and it does not augur well for society. In afct, I am surprised they have not asked for a pregnancy test too just in case the bride is not a pure virgin. This is absurd in the extreme.

Busy-body church

I cannot see what the business of the church is in trying to determine if a couple loves each other and they have not shared all secrets that might have with each other.

Next it would be all sorts of genetic tests to determine compatibility in what is becoming a slippery slope into religious eugenics in the name of better informed new entrants to the institution of marriage.

The uproar from this must not abate or relent until the folly of this rotten bigoted and busy-body exercise is expunged from the canticles, the hymns and the minds of the people.

What next? You may now exchange HIV certificates and you may not kiss the bride?

This is really absurd; it is really, really absurd - time for God to summon the bishops to an eternal consultation.

This situation MUST NOT STAND!

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1. Gillian left...
Tuesday, 21 August 2007 8:56 pm

I believe the article said that the Church did not prevent folks with HIV from being married to each other, nor did it stigmatize those who are HIV+. They are merely insisting that the parties make an informed decision. Many states require blood tests before marriage, for the same purpose (sickle cell anemia, typhoid, etc.) I had to take a blood test in order to get married - by the law of the state. What is the difference - because it is HIV? Yours seems like a knee-jerk reaction to the Nigerian Church, rather than a reading of the facts as stated in the article.


2. Akin Akintayo left...
Tuesday, 21 August 2007 11:23 pm :: http://akin.blog-city.com/

Maybe you should read the article again and see whether it is clinically making informed decisions or propagating prejudice.

The experts in this field have called this unfair especially where this should be a voluntary decision of the partners and not be enforced by some authority especially one that is not civil.

Knee-jerk as my reaction might be, the church has not been the best bastion for support in these matters and this issue is not as innocent as it seems.


3. Gillian left...
Wednesday, 22 August 2007 9:06 pm

Where do you see "propagating prejudice"? Perhaps I'm being obtuse, but I don't see it. I also see that there is a correction to the original article - the reporter substituted "require" for "advise", which is the original word used. The church "advises" people to get tested. Is there a problem with THAT?


4. Akin Akintayo left...
Wednesday, 22 August 2007 9:57 pm :: http://akin.blog-city.com/

Dear Gillian,

Thanks for your comments, However, when you leave comments on my blog, I do not expect to be addressed discourteously with shouting. Everyone is free to comment with decorum.

To your point, the issue here is not some isolated event in Nigeria but taken in context of the animosity of the Anglican Church to homosexuality and the way that is related to the HIV/AIDS scourge especially in the kind of understanding Africans perceive of HIV/AIDS.

It comes in the same time that a Christian university was going to refuse graduation to those who test positive, an assault of feminine expression by chauvinistic clamp-downs by the police, the ill-informed Genevieve magazine article on HIV/AIDS and where the church has not necessarily been the place to seek comfort or succour when people are afflicted with the disease.

Indeed, there is a need to know through blood tests a whole set of things about partners, one being sickle cell anaemia which could have been bunched together with this with a less PR disaster announcement.

In fact, I feel the gathering storm of protest from professionals and lawyers and that which the Covenant University has suffered might have lead the church to temper their message after the initial release.

I am sorry, the Anglican Church in Nigeria as not in recent times placed itself in a position that offers the benefit of doubt for a mistaken press release, that is no fault of its critics, they created that situation and would have to work to right it.